What to expect at 13 months
Appetite can vary day to day. Growth has slowed from infancy, so some meals will be big and others tiny.
Most toddlers do well with 3 meals and 1 to 2 snacks spaced about 2.5 to 3 hours apart.
Offer whole milk in a cup with meals. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) suggests about 16 to 24 fl oz per day for ages 12 to 24 months, avoiding more than 24 fl oz to protect iron status.
Water is the main drink between meals. Aim for roughly 1 to 4 cups per day based on thirst and weather.
Textures should be moving toward soft, chopped family foods. It is common to prefer softer items while building chewing skills.
Self-feeding is messy and expected. Practice with finger foods, a preloaded spoon, and an open or straw cup.
Teething, naps, and new skills can temporarily reduce intake. Look at the week, not the single meal.
NHS guidance also supports 3 meals and healthy snacks at this age and using whole milk as a drink.
Why appetites and schedules shift now
- Growth decelerates after the first year, so calorie needs per day may be lower and more variable.
- New mobility and autonomy lead to shorter attention spans for meals and more interest in the environment.
- Teething or minor illness can temporarily reduce appetite or make textures uncomfortable.
- Large volumes of milk or snacks too close to meals can crowd out food at the table.
- Nap transitions around 12 to 15 months change hunger windows and mealtime timing.
- A normal neophobic phase makes some toddlers cautious with new textures and flavors.
When to call the doctor
- Weight loss or no weight gain across percentiles over time.
- Persistent refusal of most textures, frequent gagging or vomiting with solids, or mealtimes marked by distress.
- Choking episodes with age-appropriate textures.
- Very limited diet (fewer than 10 foods) for more than one month or strong aversions interfering with daily intake.
- Signs of iron deficiency such as unusual fatigue, pallor, or breathlessness.
- Ongoing diarrhea, constipation with hard painful stools, or blood in stool.
- Drinking so much milk that meals are consistently skipped or total intake exceeds 24 fl oz daily despite guidance.
- Dehydration signs: very dark urine, fewer than 3 to 4 wet diapers in 24 hours, dry mouth, or lethargy.
- Concern about food allergy symptoms such as hives, facial swelling, repetitive vomiting, or wheeze after eating.
Build a balanced 13-month routine
Set a steady rhythm
Aim for 3 meals and 1 to 2 snacks, spaced about 2.5 to 3 hours apart. Keep mealtimes predictable to help your toddler arrive hungry but not ravenous. End meals after about 15 to 30 minutes and avoid constant grazing.
Milk game plan
Offer whole milk in a cup with meals and possibly one snack. Target 16 to 24 fl oz per day (480 to 720 ml). If intake is high, reduce milk between meals first. If using bottles, begin transitioning: drop the morning bottle first, then mid-day, then bedtime over 2 to 4 weeks while increasing cup offers.
Sample day at 13 months
7:00 Wake, offer water. 7:30 Breakfast: 1 scrambled egg (~50 g) + 1/2 slice buttered toast (~15 g) + banana 40 to 60 g + whole milk 1/2 cup (120 ml). 10:00 Snack: plain yogurt 1/2 cup (120 g) + soft berries 40 g, water. 12:30 Lunch: cooked pasta 1/3 cup (40 g) + shredded chicken 1 to 2 oz (30 to 60 g) + peas 2 to 3 tbsp (30 to 45 g) + olive oil 1 tsp + milk 1/2 cup (120 ml). 2:00 Nap. 3:30 Snack: cheese 1 oz (28 g) + ripe pear slices 50 g, water. 5:45 Dinner: salmon flakes 1 to 2 oz (30 to 60 g) + rice 1/4 to 1/3 cup cooked (40 to 60 g) + steamed carrot coins 1/4 cup (35 g) with butter 1 tsp + milk 1/2 to 3/4 cup (120 to 180 ml). 7:00 Wind-down, brush teeth, small water if desired. Adapt for two naps by shifting meals earlier and adding a small mid-morning snack.
Portion guide you can eyeball
Toddler portions are small. Per meal: protein 1 to 2 oz (28 to 56 g) or 2 to 4 tbsp; grains or starchy veg 1/4 to 1/3 cup cooked (30 to 60 g); fruit or veg 2 to 4 tbsp (30 to 60 g); added fat 1 to 2 tsp oil, butter, or avocado. It is fine if your toddler eats more or less at any single meal.
Progress textures safely
Serve soft, mashed, or finely chopped family foods. Cut slippery round foods like grapes and cherry tomatoes into thin lengthwise quarters; slice hot dogs lengthwise and then into small pieces; cook veg until soft. Spread nut butter thinly or mix into yogurt or oatmeal. Avoid hard, whole nuts.
Use exposure, not pressure
Offer 1 to 2 familiar foods with 1 new food. Place tiny tastes on the plate, model eating, and let your toddler touch or lick without pressure. It can take 10 to 15 exposures to accept a new food.
Support iron and vitamin C
Toddlers 1 to 3 years need about 7 mg iron per day. Rotate iron-rich foods like meat, poultry, fish, beans, lentils, tofu, and iron-fortified cereals. Pair plant iron with vitamin C foods like berries or citrus. Keeping milk under 24 fl oz helps protect iron status.
Smart fluids
Offer water with meals and snacks throughout the day, roughly 1 to 4 cups (240 to 960 ml) based on thirst and climate. Avoid routine juice; if used, limit to 4 fl oz (120 ml) per day and serve with meals.
Frequently asked questions
How much milk should a 13 month old drink each day?
Most toddlers at 12 to 24 months do well with 16 to 24 fl oz whole milk per day (480 to 720 ml), offered in a cup with meals and maybe one snack. The AAP advises keeping milk under 24 fl oz daily to support iron intake.
What times should meals and snacks be at 13 months?
Space food about every 2.5 to 3 hours. A common pattern is breakfast shortly after wake, a mid-morning snack, lunch before the nap, an afternoon snack, and dinner 2.5 to 3 hours later. Adjust to your toddler’s nap schedule and appetite.
How big are portions for a 13 month old?
Think small, varied tastes. Per meal aim for protein 1 to 2 oz (28 to 56 g), grains or starch 1/4 to 1/3 cup cooked (30 to 60 g), fruit or veg 2 to 4 tbsp (30 to 60 g), and 1 to 2 tsp added fat. It is normal to eat more at one meal and less at another.
Should my 13 month old still use a bottle?
Begin moving to an open or straw cup if you have not already. Try dropping the morning bottle first, then mid-day, then bedtime over 2 to 4 weeks. Offer milk in a cup with meals and water between.
My toddler will not eat dinner. Is that normal?
Yes. Appetite naturally dips some evenings. Keep the afternoon snack light and end it 2 to 3 hours before dinner. Offer one safe food they usually accept, serve family-style, and avoid pressure.
How much water does a 13 month old need?
Offer water with meals and snacks. Many toddlers do well with about 1 to 4 cups per day depending on thirst, activity, and weather. Urine that is pale yellow and regular wet diapers mean hydration is on track.
What textures are right at 13 months?
Soft, chopped family foods are typical. Cut round or firm foods into thin, small pieces; cook vegetables until soft; spread nut butters thinly; and avoid hard whole nuts. Expect some gagging while skills mature.
Do 13 month olds still need night feeds?
Most toddlers can meet calorie needs during the day. If a night bottle persists, gradually reduce volume and move calories to daytime meals and snacks while maintaining a soothing bedtime routine.
How do I make sure my 13 month old gets enough iron?
Toddlers 1 to 3 years need about 7 mg iron per day. Offer meat, fish, eggs, beans, lentils, tofu, and iron-fortified cereals. Pair plant sources with vitamin C foods and keep milk under 24 fl oz to protect iron status.
We are vegetarian. What proteins work at this age?
Try beans, lentils, tofu, soy yogurt, nut butters spread thin, eggs if included, and iron-fortified grains. Add vitamin C produce to boost iron absorption. Ask your pediatrician about B12 and vitamin D needs.
How do I align daycare and home schedules?
Share your toddler’s hunger windows and portion goals with caregivers. Keep consistent meal and snack intervals, send familiar foods, and plan a light, early dinner if pickup is late.
What if teething is hurting appetite?
Offer cool, soft foods like chilled fruit, yogurt, or oatmeal and keep portions small and frequent. Appetite typically rebounds within a few days. Call your doctor for persistent pain, fever, or dehydration.
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